This book is a light in the darkness, providing clear and concise guidance about how to talk to teenagers about sexuality, sex, and relationships. The author helps us to navigate our own emotional responses while also being thoughtful parents. Of particular value are the many dialogs she includes that reflect real-life conversations with teenagers, as well as advice for what to do when a teenager refuses to talk about sex at all. As a licensed psychologist who works with parents, I am delighted to have this book as a resource, and I intend to share it with my clients and colleagues. -Valerie Creane, Psy.D